By J Gardener

As much as we all look forward to the Christmas season, with its parties and lights and songs and fellowship, we all know that the holidays are best celebrated with children, without whose innocent wonder Santa Claus wouldn't even exist. Everything about the season is richer, when we can see it all through our childrens' eyes.

The family holiday gathering is one of our most common traditions, a time when the extended family of aunts and uncles and cousins get together to celebrate not just the holidays, but their shared love and fellowship. It's also the time when young parents introduce the newest family members to the rest of the brood. But with families so spread out, today, it's becoming more and more difficult for families to engage in this treasured custom.

While a family with little ones may reside in one town, the childrens' grandparents might live in opposite corners of the country. Grandparents love nothing more than spending the holidays with their granchildren, and few grandparents are shy about making those feelings known.

Family life has changed, though, since most of today's grandparents were new parents. Most young families, today, are two-income households, and holiday vacation time for Dad may be different than Mom's time off. Travel-planning, particularly during the holidays, is more difficult than it was a generation ago. Airline travel is more expensive and also more difficult, when flying with small children.

It's no fun for any family to be pressured into spending time and money on travel, at Christmas, and it's even worse for families who have to travel with young children. By the time a family with tired toddlers has been through several crowded airports, and sat crammed into several planes, none of them are in a mood to enjoy the holiday.

Grandparents interested in seeing their offsprings' children at Christmastime really should remember what it was like to be a young parent with a new family. It's much easier for grandparents to travel to their grandchildren, than vice-versa. It's also less expensive for two to fly, than a family. And if Grandma and Grandpa are really considerate, they'll at least offer to stay in a motel, near their kids, so that no one has to be displaced by their visit.

The best time for grandparents to visit is just before Christmas. They can give presents to their grandkids, help babysit while the grandchildren's parents attend holiday functions, then leave and be out of the way by Christmas itself, so that the new young family can begin their own holiday traditions. Many grandparents and retirees have discovered that Christmas week is a great time to find bargain prices at resorts and hotels. A vacation, right after visiting the grandkids, is a great way to make the nest seem less empty at Christmas.

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